Katharine & Carlton
10 . 25 . 2025
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Portland, ME
Days Until Our Next Chapter Begins
Once Upon a Time in Maine
We first crossed paths at work in late 2016. Kat had just joined the company as a conference coordinator; CJ was a web developer about a year into his role. Though we technically met then, Kat soon moved into sales and our paths rarely crossed. We worked on different floors, leading lives that ran parallel more than intertwined—save for the occasional elevator ride.
Years later, at a company holiday party in December 2022—hosted at the very hotel where we’ll celebrate with all of you—a casual conversation at Top of the East shifted something. A friend jokingly suggested we grab coffee. We laughed, but CJ followed through.
In January 2023, we met for a drink at Little Tap House and discovered something neither of us had expected.
Where the Plot Thickened
From the beginning, there was an ease to it—quiet but certain. Weekly dates turned into shared routines, laughter that lingered, and the comfort of being fully ourselves. We talked about everything. And over time, the simple things—walks, meals, Maine maple Old Fashioneds—became the foundation of something much deeper.
The proposal night brought us full circle. CJ planned a walk down memory lane—Little Tap House, dinner at Boda, a final stop at Top of the East. Kat thought it might happen right out of the gate, so each “not yet” left her a little more unsure. Meanwhile, CJ was gaining confidence with every stop, thinking the buildup was working perfectly. By the time we reached the porch, we were on completely different emotional wavelengths—but that’s exactly where he’d planned it all along, so the moment could be captured on the Ring camera. He asked, and she said yes!
The Big Day
10.25.25
We look forward to celebrating with you at the Westin Portland Harborview Hotel. More details to come.
Travel
We’re so excited to be celebrating at the Westin Portland Harborview, and we’ll have a block of rooms available for those looking to stay closest to the celebration.
There are many options in and around Portland, though, and wherever you stay, we hope you’ll enjoy the beauty of Maine!
Exploring Where It All Began
We’ve made some of our sweetest memories exploring the streets, cafés, and rocky coastlines of Portland, Maine. If you have time during the wedding weekend, here are some of the spots that mean the most to us!
Gallery
FAQ
Can I bring my children or a guest?
Formal invitations will outline exactly who is invited. Thank you for understanding as we create a meaningful celebration.
What should I wear?
We kindly request formal attire for our wedding. Ladies, please wear floor-length dresses. Gentlemen, a dark suit and tie are perfect (no tuxedo required!). We’re aiming for an upscale cocktail hour vibe — elegant, polished, and celebratory.